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Sunday, December 29, 2013

Our little lady is FOUR!

Natalee Grace,

 You are four and your mommy is still in denial. You are one of the highlights to each and every one of my days. You, four years ago today, gave me the most important title of "mommy." I love that I get to wake up to you every day and tuck you in each evening, if I beat your daddy to it. You have given us so much joy and we are so thankful to God for you.

We made sure to kick off your 4th birthday in true party colors. While you were sleeping, daddy and I snuck in and hung streamers and balloons all over your room and threw some balloons on the floor as well. We were trying so hard to not wake you up and were so excited to hear your response when you woke the next morning. We were successful and you snoozed right through the decorating. :) When you woke, you ran to our room, exclaiming, "Someone decorated for my birthday!! Was it you? Did you do that? When?!" We loved that you loved it. You are so special to us and we love to show you that you are.
 
 
 
Daddy went to The Donut Stop and brought you back a pink one. We enjoyed talking about what being a four year old would mean and what new things you may be able to do this next year. Mommy also made you a ladybug shirt that you got to open and wear to church. You were super proud and love all things ladybug.
 
 
 
Off to church we went and you loved all of the extra hugs and birthday wishes that you received while there. After church, we let you pick a restaurant to go to and you picked Fazzolis. You LOVE alfredo. :) We rounded up a few friends from church who could also join in on the birthday celebration. You got to sit at the "kid table" and felt SO proud. You ordered alfredo, with the long noodles (your words) and ate every last bite.
 
 
 
We ended your day with a trip to the bakery to get a cupcake. You, of course, picked a pink one with sprinkles and a strawberry on top. We stuck candles in both your donut this morning and your cupcake this evening. We love our little December baby and are so blessed by you, daily.
 
At 4 years of age you can;
-count to 50
-write your name
-swing by yourself
-sing any song
-recognize all letters
-drink from a cup
-make your bed
-play together with friends
-use your imagination
-color in the lines, mostly
-recite the directions on how to get to our house (we put it to a song)
-dance the best ballet
-play board games (you love candyland and hi-ho cherrio)
-jump on the trampoline
-recite your address
-recite your birth date
-sit still long enough to go to the movie theater
-put your shoes on the right feet
-wash your body in the tub
-play with your brothers
-eat with a spoon or a fork with all foods
-recite the days of the week
-recite the months of the year
-suck your thumb (while holding your ladybug blanket)
-use your manners

I am sure there is much more. You are one smart cookie. I love you so much, baby doll and cannot wait to see what the next year holds for you, my dear.
-Mommy

Saturday, December 28, 2013

Three no more!

Well, she has done it! Her 4th birthday will be in the morning. Four seems SO big. Of course, I say that every year, with every number. Every year, I have taken a picture of me rocking her the night before her birthday. I cry every time. I love looking at the four pictures of this pose that I have and remembering all of the rocking that has taken place. No, we don't rock every night like we used to, that has now been replaced with sitting on her toddler bed, reading bedtime stories, but the cuddling is still there. I love her. So, here is the newest picture to add to the ever growing collage...and one of us kissing, because I needed three year old smooches one. last. time.
Happy last night as a three year old, sweet girl. When you wake in the morning, FOUR will be here and I am sure your mommy will cry again.
 
-Krystole

Friday, April 5, 2013

Realization

I have wanted to be a stay at home mom since the minute I found out I was pregnant. Some people know what they want to be when they grow up and pursue those dreams in a college degree and a career. That is awesome. I have always wanted to be a mom. After two years of school and a degree in early childhood development, I still knew I just wanted to be a mom. The day I made the choice to stay at home was the best day of my life. I have never been more satisfied with a decision. I felt so fulfilled. So happy. So excited to start on this new journey with my almost 2 year old daughter. We were going to make so many memories. Bake so many cookies. Play way too much dress up and blow too many bubbles. Heaven on earth. Now, a year and a half later, and a set of twin boys added to my plate, I often feel those dreams slipping away. When I first thought about being a stay at home mom, I pictured countless hours just watching Natalee, soaking in every moment of her golden brown hair, dirty hands and sweet little voice. I dreamed about the craft projects we would do, the parks we would play at, the service projects we would be involved in and the play groups we would attend. Don't get me wrong, we have our fair share of all of these things, but not like I had imagined it would be. I was slapped in the face. I awoke to the pressure all moms have. I was made aware to all the work that needed to be done. I realized the "competition" that exists in the realm of a stay at home mom. My dream slowly turned into a nightmare. I realized that society told me I needed to be a 50's wife. You know; "house perfect-dinner made-red lipstick and heels kind of wife." I have never in my life worn red lipstick and my cooking is definitely no Betty Crocker. My house needed to be clean and perfect all day, every day. I needed to have the clothes washed and hung and put away before my husband got home. Dinner needed to be gourmet, organic and delicious all at the same time. What did this mean? It meant I had a choice. I could either fall into the trap of society's way of thinking or I could continue to do the best I could with what I had and not be fake. Who really likes fake?
There is no time to BE with your children with this constant need for perfection running through your head. Your children will not remember that you put on make-up everyday or that you vacuumed every Tuesday. They will remember the tickle fights, pretend play, and camping trips. So much of my time is spent managing my home, running errands, changing diapers, feeding babies and going to play groups and ballet, I wonder how much time I really have spent with my children by the end of the day. Yes, I realize I am around my children all the time, but am I just going from place to place and chore to chore? Did I stop and take a moment for some quality time? Did I make them feel special?
Today I will play with my children. Today I will read a book. Today I will not worry about the perfection of my house. Today I will be a great mommy. Today I will not worry about the Joneses. Who are they anyway? I encourage you  to put down that scrubber, remote or red lipstick and do the same. As we all know, they grow so fast, and my dirty house will still be there tomorrow, but my "babies" won't.

Krystole

Saturday, March 30, 2013

8 Months

I can't believe I am about to begin writing about your 8th month of life. Mind blown. Denial. Seriously?
Yep, it is taking place as I type and I still don't believe it.
8 whole months. It just doesn't seem real. This has probably been one of my favorite months so far. So many little milestones. So much personality. So, here it goes...
 
 
Aiden:
Hello there, Sargent Carter. We get it, you run this joint. You are continuously bossing people around with your "cocky" raised eyebrows and stare. You look at people like, "Do you really think that face is going to make me smile, silly human?" You crack me up. You growl and boss with your little voice. It is hilarious. You started sitting up alone this month and you love it. You love being able to see more and watch more. You look at me like, "See what I can do?!" You love to grab and reach for things on the floor and bring it up to your mouth for a little taste test. You are still so strong. You have a grip that would scare a gorilla, I am sure of it. You stand so well and really get the johnny jump up going. You really started laughing well this month too, when you finally decide something is funny enough to put forth the effort. I love your little laugh and big grin. You know your name and will turn your head to see who is calling you. You are definitely a people watcher. You tried lots of new foods this month and liked them all. You do like it better if it is warmed up, can't blame you on that one. On March 4th you tried apples and blueberries, on the 6th you tried mixed berries with bananas, on the 6th you tried butternut squash, the 19th you tried apricots, and on the 22nd you tried oatmeal with raspberries. You wore your first size three diapers on the 17th. Growing boy. You weigh 17 pounds even. You have come such a long way from 4 pounds 6 ounces. :) You are still wearing 3-6 month jammies, but I have been buying 6-9 month clothes for you for summer. You do fit into 6-9 month stuff, but it is definitely baggy. I really think by your first birthday, you will be caught up size wise. You went to the church nursery for Sunday school AND church service for the first time on March 3rd. The nursery workers cannot get enough of you and were so excited for us to leave you a little longer. You have learned lots of new "words" this month. You started saying "da-da" on March 21st. Now, you make all kinds of other noises and talk constantly. You still remind me so much of your sister. Everyone (on my side of the family) says you look exactly like your Great Uncle Rusty. I think you act just like him for sure! I can see resemblance in baby pictures. I am not quite sure who I think you look like. I see different people in you at different times. Some times it is Natalee, some it is your daddy and other times it is your brother. For the most part, I just see Aiden...the Sargent. LOL. You can hold your own bottle now, which makes mommy happy and sad. One step to independence, one step away from "baby." I still like to hold you while you eat, although it is nice, at times, on the hectic days to be able to make you a bottle and get a couple other things accomplished as well. You eat four, six ounce bottles a day. This was the first month to be full-time formula fed. I was very sad, but just wasn't producing enough, and nothing I tried helped to produce more. I know it is not the end of the world. I know you are still getting the nutrition you need, but it was still hard to let that go. I am thankful for the time that I was able to breastfeed though. You are the sweet. You are adorable. You are loved.
 
 
 

 
Barrett:
Hello there, Bear Boy. Our little snuggle bug. You would lay around all day and snuggle if you could. You smile at anything and everything. You look at people like, "Look at me, I will smile at you!" You crack me up. You coo and flirt with your sweet little voice. It is so funny! You started sitting up alone this month and you love it. You are still okay with just laying around though, so we have had to work with you a little more, ya know, to get you to use a muscle or something. You love to grab and reach for things on the floor and bring it up to your mouth for a little taste test. You love the johnny jump up and even manage to burn some calories while you are in there. You really starting laughing this month and you are very ticklish. You will laugh at the slightest touch to your ribs or feet or collar bone or thighs. LOL. I love your little laugh and huge grin. You tried lots of new foods this month and liked them all. You do like it better if it is warmed up, can't blame you on that one. On March 4th you tried apples and blueberries, on the 6th you tried mixed berries with bananas, on the 6th you tried butternut squash, the 19th you tried apricots, and on the 22nd you tried oatmeal with raspberries. You wore your first size three diapers on the 17th. Growing boy. You weigh 18 pounds 5 ounces. You have come such a long way from 5 pounds 2 ounces. :) You are still wearing 3-6 month jammies, but I have been buying 6-9 month clothes for you for summer. You do fit into 6-9 month stuff, but it is definitely baggy. I really think by your first birthday, you will be caught up size wise. You went to the church nursery for Sunday school AND church service for the first time on March 3rd. The nursery workers cannot get enough of you and were so excited for us to leave you a little longer. You learned a couple new sounds this month, but mainly just sing and coo still, with a few squeals every now and then. Everyone (on my side of the family) says you look just like your Grumps and Uncle Drew. I couldn't agree more and have said you looked like Grumps since very early on. I also see your Great Grandma (Jeremy's Grandmother) at times as well. I think it is your big blue eyes that remind me of my dad and brother (and more of myself). You can hold your own bottle now, which makes mommy happy and sad. One step to independence, one step away from "baby." I still like to hold you while you eat, although it is nice, at times, on the hectic days to be able to make you a bottle and get a couple other things accomplished as well. You eat four, six ounce bottles a day. This was the first month to be full-time formula fed. I was very sad, but just wasn't producing enough, and nothing I tried helped to produce more. I know it is not the end of the world. I know you are still getting the nutrition you need, but it was still hard to let that go. I am thankful for the time that I was able to breastfeed though. You are the sweet. You are adorable. You are loved.
 
 
 


Natalee:
You have grown up so much this month too. You have started ballet, which you are over the moon about. You love it and I love watching you at it too. You can now buckle yourself into your car seat. This was a big accomplishment, because now mommy doesn't have to reach over one of brother's car seats and into the backseat to buckle you up. I am so proud of you. You are learning your letters so well. You know all of them by sight and are now finding and pointing them out to me while we are driving, are in the grocery store, or are reading books. SO smart. You can write you name and pretty darn well, if I do say so myself. I was just curious, wrote your name down, and told you to copy it and you did. I shouldn't be surprised, but I am. Everyday. By something. You amaze me. You love wearing footie pajamas so you can "match your baby brudders," so I have had to buy some footie jammies in bulk here lately. You really are obsessed and pitch a fit if we try to put you in something else. LOL. You really started playing with your baby dolls a lot more this month. You have always played with them, but now you are shadowing what I do with Aiden and Barrett a lot more on your dolls. Your favorite doll is Gracie and now you have named another doll Jeremy. You say that they are twins. You also sleep every night with them and another baby named Kirkland. You named all of these babies yourself. I love it. You got to go and see the Little Mermaid this month. You were beside yourself and loved every minute of it. You also sang the solo louder than the actress herself and we were on the front row too. You got to meet Ariel and Cinderella in the SAME day, so that was a big deal. Cinderella was at the mall, along with a face painter, so we just made a princess day of it. You had a blast and I loved seeing your little face light up when you met them. You are learning and growing so much. You started praying for specific people this month. It is so adorable. We let you pick out three people to pray for at night. You love it and remind us of it if we accidentally forget. It is so sweet to hear your prayers. There are many times I tear up with joy. Melt. My. Heart. You also love to read from your Bible and always say that we have to "read this one first" before any of the other books that you picked out for bed time. There are so many times that I feel that I am not getting to spend much time with you, or making good use of the spare time I do have. For that, I am sorry. Just know that your mommy loves you more that you will ever know and I am so proud of you and who you are becoming. You are sweet. You are adorable. You are loved.
 
 
 


Mommy:
This has really been the first month that I am starting to feel "normal" again, whatever that is. LOL. I have a great schedule down and am beginning to have more "free" time. I have lost 19 pounds so far (37 total since the boys birth) and am very proud of myself. I have gone down 3 sizes and can fit into the fourth size smaller, but it is still a little tight. I am trying to regain control over many different issues that have spiraled since the birth of the twins. We are eating healthier, really just doing portion sizes, we have always eaten pretty well. I am trying to exercise more, but still find it hard to find the time for it on a regular basis. Jeremy and I took a Dave Ramsey class and learned a lot and were reminded of how God truly wants us to live. A slap in the face that was needed. We are in a lot of debt because of medical bills, but God has been faithful to us, as always, and we know that some day, we will be free from those chains. A lot has happened in the last 8 months, but I am confident that there is a reason for it all, and God's timing and purpose will be revealed. In all reality, we have it pretty easy. I have friends that I just wish only had medical bills as their only problem. We are healthy, we are loved and we are blessed.
Krystole

Saturday, January 26, 2013

Interview #3

So, my baby is three. I have decided to make an album for her, which will include the same questions asked on her birthday each year. On one side of the album, I will print out an 8X10 of her on her birthday and on the other side, the questionnaire will be placed with her answers. I look forward to going over these questions every year and seeing how they change. I will also be typing the answers like she said them. I want to remember every part of her lisp and cuteness.


 1.What is your name? Natalee Drace Dluber (Natalee Grace Glover)
 2.What is your mommy's name? Trythtole (Krystole)
 3.What is your daddy's name? Deremy (Jeremy)
 4.What are your brothers name? Barrett and Aiden
 5.What does mommy do all day? Color with me, play with me, decorate and eat with me
 6.What does daddy do all day? Decorate cookies, play with me, work at Boys Ranch
 7.What do your baby brothers do all day? Suck their thumbs, sit up like a big boy and  when they grow up we will go to the pond and fish with them
 8.What is your favorite movie? Cinderella
 9.What is your favorite color? Pink and Blue
10.What is your favorite food? Yogurt and Macaroni and cheese
11.What is your favorite fruit? Tiwi (Kiwi)
12.What is your favorite drink? Drape Juice (Grape Juice)
13.What is your favorite snack? Goldfish, yogurt raisins and cranberries
14.What is your favorite cereal? Dora Cereal
15.What do you like to eat for breakfast? Eggs
16.What do you like to eat for lunch? Macaroni
17.What is your favorite song? Jesus Loves Me
18.What is your favorite thing to do? Play dress up
19.What do you want to be when you grow up? Princess
20.What is your favorite book? Princess Books
21.What is your favorite toy? Dora the Mermaid
22.What is your favorite game? Candyland
23.What is your favorite thing outside? Swing and Slide
24.What is your favorite holiday? Summer
25.What is your favorite thing to sleep with? Pink Flamingo and Molly the Mermaid
26.What is your favorite animal? Pink Flamingo
27.How old are you? Free (three)
28.Who are your friends? Lincoln (church friend), Abbie (Boys Ranch) and Brooklyn (a girl I watch)29.Who is your best friend? Lincoln
30.When is your birthday? Twocember 29 (December 29th)

So, there you have it. Three years old. Adorable. I love her.
Krystole